I’ve messed up in my relationship

I’ve messed up in my relationship more times than I want to admit (but here it is..) All my mess-ups came largely because of the following two reasons (and I would argue that most men are afflicted by both): Here’s a great analogy of how the first affliction works: If we throw a pebble into […]

How to change your reality

There is ONLY ONE reason for experiencing any of the following: Feeling inadequate, insecure, insufficient (not enough) Feeling stuck and at a standstill Hiding, censoring yourself, muting yourself, making yourself small People pleasing Perfectionism Not having clear boundaries or allowing your boundaries to be violated Trying to fit in Excessively doubting yourself, being indecisive Feeling […]

5 liberating lessons from a “messy” coach

This happened not more than a few weeks ago… I was out on the streets walking briskly. Not because I was hurrying to get somewhere – but because I was trying to run away from myself. How does one run away from themselves? They don’t because they can’t. It’s impossible, right? The reason I was […]

Here’s why “wanting” is oftentimes very painful

…and how to want in joy instead of pain and suffering. How often do you want to be somewhere else rather than where you now are? And I don’t mean physically, but rather in the sense of “I’m not okay where I am right now and I want things to be different”. If you are […]

This is exactly why you are good enough

I’m going to make a case for why you are worthy (you are good enough) without having to qualify for it – ever! First, worthiness (good enough-ness) is the same as inherent value. Great. So, now think of a baby. If you’ve ever had a baby this will be easy for you to relate to. […]

Attracting emotionally unavailable partners

Attracting emotionally unavailable partners

“I keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners” If that’s something you’ve ever said or thought to yourself – read on. (If not, you probably know someone who has – share this with them) I’m not a relationships coach. And I don’t have to be. This is pure psychology – and that’s what I DO understand and […]

If you still don’t know your purpose

Let’s make things easy… What’s your purpose in life? What’s the highest purpose in every-single-person’s life? I just had a mastermind call with soulmates. And this came up in the call. And it asked to be spoken about. Revisited again. Contemplated in later quiet hours (which is where this text is originating). Powerful questions that […]

Why it gets hard before it gets easy

It always gets hard first before it gets easy, especially one you commit to something big! Have you noticed that? Someone decides to lose weight and starts on a program. The first few weeks suck. And the scales don’t move at all… sometimes the scales even go up. Someone decides to go all in financially […]